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    1115的一天

     

    Max在他的新日志里浅浅的说:我们生活在一个任性的时代。这是关于爱情的。文字读起来很理性,那一刻让我深受教育。但是,很快,又被新的触感而颠覆。

    去苏州参加赟和晓杰的婚礼。参加了很多次的婚礼,这一次,连花车都是自己扎,真是一段齐累齐分享的集体幸福着的时光。从见到晓杰的那一刻开始,就见他一直咧着嘴不停的笑,他说他们的故事,他说他们未来的生活,他说我们曾经一起呆过的校园,四个字:幸福满溢。赟很幸福,因为她找到了一个只爱她的人;晓杰也很幸福,因为他等到了一个值得他爱的人。

    见到小金的时候,那一刻就像回到了4年前的纺院,她还是那个看起来精神不济的样子,但是其实满脑子的活跃细胞,她带着我混火车,我们开心的好像曾经在纺院的后街上吃路边摊一样,她说我该保养了,都有鱼尾纹了,我很想也“打击”一下她,但是怎么看,她还是和7年前一样,一切的一切都一样,似乎没有一丁点儿的变化。直到我们在地铁站分手的时候,我才隐约觉得我们已经很久没有见面了。

    这一天是快乐的。我都遗忘了自己原来有着任性的坏毛病,因为似乎根本没有需要我任性的情境存在。直到回到上海。

    虽然固执和任性都是用来形容一个人,但是固执往往是自己跟自己过不去,而任性从来都是跟别人过不去。

    不想做一个任性的人,就不可以有太多的要求,但是没有了要求,似乎又会显得什么都无所谓,但是其实我真的在意的,只是不愿强求。

    我不想固执,更不想任性,哪怕这里真是一个任性的时代。

     

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    波 陈wrote:
    1115是我生日啊!哈哈!
    1 day ago
    Yanfang Panwrote:
    原來如此,我跟自己過不去已經太久了。。。
    PS:小吳老師總是不經意間冒幾句讓人醍醐灌頂的話:)
    Nov. 18

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